The Man Who Knows He Can

If you think you are better, you are.
If you think you dare not, you don’t.
If you like to win, but you think you can’t,
It is almost certain you won’t.

If you think you’ll lose, you’ve lost.
For out in the world you’ll find,
Success begins with a fellow’s will;
It’s all a state of mind.

If you think you are outclassed, you are.
You’ve got to think high to rise,
You’ve got to be sure of yourself before
You can ever win the prize.

Life’s battles don’t always go
To the stronger, faster man.
But sooner or later, the man who wins
Is The Man Who Knows He Can!


http://dennisharting.blogspot.com/2008/12/man-who-knows-he-can.html

Through A Childs Eyes

Through a childs eyes, the meaning of life

Teflon Insides

Are you the type of person who lets things get to you, things you know you have no control over, or are you the type that lets things wash over them and not let them affect you ?

John Gotti, the head of the Gambino crime family, was known as the Teflon Don because none of the first few indictments against him stuck. In other words, the charges of the prosecution bounced off him.

This brings me to today's lesson. Do you have teflon insides or do you let things get to you? This is a very important question pertaining to emotional stability. Your answer shows how you are able to handle things.

People who have emotional control have things "roll off their back". It seems like they are immune to criticism. They simply do not take things to heart. Accusations or insults levied against them bounce off like that person is made of Teflon. Again, nothing sticks to them.

http://dennisharting.blogspot.com/2009/02/teflon-insides.html

Happiness Quote

Learn this and live it, it is the main stay of a the happy life that you deserve

Personal Accountability

If we don't do something, who is responsible ? If we say today I am going to do x then y and we don't then ho is to blame ? I know at times circumstances dictate and we have no choice in certain things but the majority of the time it is our responsibility to get things done, after all no one is going to benefit more than we are

A major component to success is the ability to follow through. Action is a pre-requisite for achievement. The greatest plans in the world are worthless unless action is added to the mix. It is the transition that takes something from the invisible world (an idea) into the visible (physical form).

To do this, there needs to be a level of accountability someplace along the line. Rarely is success a one-shot deal. Most often, success is the result of dedicated effort over a long period of time. Persistence is a common quality among those who attain excel. They have the ability to persevere regardless of the obstacles that arise.

It seems that we do the best when we are accountable to others. Lying is not something that most people will openly admit to enjoying. We want to perceive ourselves as honest. Yet, if we tell someone that we will do something, and fail to take the action, that is a form of dishonesty. For many, this is a situation they will do everything to avoid. Therefore, people do fairly well when they are accountable to others.

http://dennisharting.blogspot.com/2009/04/personal-accountability.html

Hang On

Hang on, no one ever said it would be an easy ride but it is a ride worth holding on for

Ignore What You Cannot Change

There are many things in life we have no control over - The weather,traffic, the economy to name but a few, but how do they affect you ? Do you worry about what is going to happen and how it will affect you ?There are many things that you can stress over, that you can worry about, but the things you cannot change ? Why bother worrying as you will not be able to change them.

People love to spend time complaining about things which they cannot change. It is one of the easiest ways to sabotage your success. There are certain things which we can affect in our lives. However, wasting energy on things which cannot be changed is a waste of time and effort.

There are those who love to complain. They will bitch about anything and everything. This creates for a miserable existence. It also sucks us into a rut which is extremely difficult to exit. You need to be mindful of this when you are approaching this zone.

What are some of the things that people commonly complain about which they cannot alter in the slightest. The list is endless. Nevertheless, some examples are taxes, the speed which time elapses, others opinions, the weather, and your height. No matter how much effort you put into talking about these topics, you will not change them at all. You are powerless over each of those situations.

Cup Cakes of Life

I loved this picture, it is sweet and full of all the things we need to remember

Courage Is Crucial

Have you ever wanted to do something but at the last minute decided not to because you were afraid of the outcome ? Have you allowed yourself to be talked out of that new job/house/extra schooling because you are unsure of how things will turn out ? Sometimes we can do a better job of sabotaging our dreams than all of our friends and family put together

The easiest thing to do in life is to exist at whatever level you are presently operating at. Change is something that is difficult for most people to embrace. To successfully do this requires the courage to step out of one's comfort zone into the unknown. This is a concept which is more than most can handle.

How can I make this assertion? Simple, most lead lives they are unhappy with. I see so many settling for less than they truly desire. They lack the courage to risk failure when they go after what they really want. This is something that society trains us to do. We are taught the "safe" route is the way to go. Sadly, it is also the path that leads to unhappiness.

If you are going to alter your life, it is going to take a great deal of courage. Changing requires a bit of risk taking. When you undertake something like this, you expose yourself to the ridicule of other people. Often, this comes from those who are closest to us. Those who have our "best interest" at heart are usually the ones who crush our dreams. They tell us to "be realistic" and get something that is safe.

http://dennisharting.blogspot.com/2008/12/courage-is-crucial.html

Don't Be Afraid

Don't fear change, it might just be the something you were looking for

Other People's Programming

Have you ever stopped to wonder how and why we have the values/ideas/mindet that we do ? Is it us or is it a by product of things we have been taught ? Is what we think and feel all at the teachings of others and not really our own ideals or thoughts ?

Have you ever thought about the difference between a cult and a religion? What is it that separates the two? I believe the only difference is the conditioning we received which leads us to our conclusions. The programming of others is what establishes the beliefs that we carry with us each day.

Cults have the reputation for brainwashing people. Many who lead these enterprises are manipulative people with a self-serving (and sometimes evil) agenda. They are often delusional individuals who prey upon the weak. Those who fit a particular profile are targeted. Many believe that it is the weak who fall prey to this type of manipulation.

However, couldn't we say the same thing about the world's religions? People get their belief system from the "church" which tells them what is going to happen. They are instructed of how they are to live, what to worship, and with whom to interact. All stages of life, and thereafter, are often spelled out. Yet millions of people show up to their places of worship every Sunday.

Create Your Life

If You Think

If you think you are better, you are.
If you think you dare not, you don’t.
If you like to win, but you think you can’t,
It is almost certain you won’t.

If you think you’ll lose, you’ve lost.
For out in the world you’ll find,
Success begins with a fellow’s will;
It’s all a state of mind.

If you think you are outclassed, you are.
You’ve got to think high to rise,
You’ve got to be sure of yourself before
You can ever win the prize.

Life’s battles don’t always go
To the stronger, faster man.
But sooner or later, the man who wins
Is The Man Who Knows He Can!

Anonymous

http://dennisharting.blogspot.com/2008/12/man-who-knows-he-can.html

Chasing Ladybugs

Sometunes it when we stop chasing things that we find they come to us

Saying No Out Of Habit

All to often we say no to something out of habit, we are not really thinking just knowing that we are unsure of the outcome so our minds advise us to reject the ideas, yet why is that ? If we do not know something them why say no ? It is fear that is controlling us, the fear of what MIGHT happen and not the knowledge of what will happen for certain


A few days ago, I wrote about "Saying Yes to Life". This is something that I believe many people need to implement. We are conditioned by society to say no to offers. Saying 'yes' opens up experiences we otherwise would have passed on.

Today I want to touch upon the psychology behind this. Most people allow fear to control their lives. The reason I make this statement is they tend to say 'no' more often then they say 'yes'. A life filled with negative responses is one that is run by fear.

Fear always leads to 'no'. It cannot be any other way. Fear is a technique used by the mind to maintain certainty. Anytime you are pondering something different the mind determines ways that it can control the certainty you experience. Obviously, a potentially new experience means there will be some uncertainty. The mind abhors this. Therefore, it creates a bit of fear in you to get you to deny the opportunity. Operating under the status quo is preferred.

http://dennisharting.blogspot.com/2009/04/fear-leads-to-no.html

Simple But Effective

Simple but effective, read it and remember it, its true for all of us

Who is looking at themselves?

With all the trouble and uncertainty in the world today, who do you look to blame when the job you hold is made redundant, when the bank that has all your money folds, when the dreams you have never become realities ? Who is to blame ?


We live in the 'age of blame'. People are being taught that it is acceptable to place the blame for the ills in our lives on others. This concept has taken hold to such a great degree that it is a national epidemic. And, the powerful in the media and the government are only fostering this idea. When was the last time a powerful person stood up and took responsibility for a failure. Consider for a second the political landscape. We are in the midst of the worst economic situation in a couple of generations yet nobody in power has taken any responsibility for it. Instead, they are blaming everyone else. The finger pointing is on at full speed. I try to train people to look at themselves. This is crucial for success. I subscribe to the ancient belief that if I am responsible I can make a change; if you are responsible I have to wait for you to change. Personal responsibility is where personal power resides.

Appriciate Happiness

Its the little things that make a difference, appriciate the smallest things and share them with somoene you care about

Use Your Anger

Do you ever find yourself getting cross at something, either something someone else did or more importantly what you yourself did ? Do you find yourself being mad at a missed oppertunity or chance at something ?

Everyone gets angry periodically. There are simply certain things in life which irritate us. This feeling is magnified when the anger is caused by something we, ourselves, did. In others words, we are peeved at ourselves.

My study of human behavior leads me to believe that people will not make changes until they have felt enough emotional pain. It is sad to say but pain is a better motivator for change than pleasure. People will only take a different path once they suffered enough.

A prime example is the alcoholic. This person's drinking is a problem long before he or she admits it. Others around that person see it. However, the alcoholic will not seek recovery until he or she felt enough pain. Only then will the new path be forged.

http://dennisharting.blogspot.com/2009/03/use-your-anger.html

Never Forget

Words are easily forgotten but feelings stay with you

Thinking About Things Differently

When you sit and think about things, what do you picture yourself doing, where are you, how are you ? Are you happy, sad, uncertain, scared or estatic ? How you think is how your life tends to be, think about being happy and no doubt you will remember something that made you smile, think about being scared and your mind will go to a time you were frightened about something, your mind controls so much of your life and it has the power to make or break your ambitions and dreams.

The world is coming to an end. At least that is the impression that one could get by reading the headlines doled out by the media. While not believing that the end is near, I will grant that we are in some trying times. This worldwide debacle has the potential to eclipse the Great Depression in severity. People are going to see things we have not witnessed in a few generations.

For this reason, I feel it important for people to change their mode of thinking. Many in the press made an issue of the fact that all stock profits gained by the bull market run over the last decade were wiped out in the last 6-9 months. This completely destroyed the buy and hold model of stock investing. People who adhered to this philosophy realized major losses recently.

This is just one example of how people's thinking needs to change. Another example is the idea of security in one's job. The days of lifetime employment left us 15 years ago. However, many still clung to the illusion that there is safety in a job. Understand this: there is no security in a job. This is something that can be lost at any time. We are witnessing well over half a million people losing their security each month in the United States alone.

http://dennisharting.blogspot.com/2009/04/thinking-about-things-differently.html

Nothing is Original

Take the things that interest you, that fire your imagination, take them and learn from them

Fear of Failure

Do you ever find yourself not trying something in case you can't do it ? Do you ever wish you had the courage to persue your dreams and ambitions but won't as you are scred to fail? What about that new job you really want, but don't go for in case they say no?


We are taught that failure is something that is to be avoided. And, it is for that very reason why people live in a cocoon. The fear of failure, ingrained in us since we were young, is one of the most power motivators (demotivators) that exists. It serves to crush more dreams than anything else.

Failure is a wonderful thing. Here is something that I want you to remember: the most successful person is the one who failed the most. Imprint that idea on your memory. Understanding this single concept will change your life.

Babe Ruth is recognized as one of the greatest homerun hitters of all-time. Did you know that he held the record for strikeouts longer than the homerun title? Warren Buffet, known as the Oracle of Omaha for his stock picking, lost $25 billion last year in the stock market. How many people have that much money to lose? Colonel Sanders was rejected over 1,000 times before someone accepted his recipe for chicken. Who among us is not familiar with his creation, Kentucky Fried Chicken?

http://dennisharting.blogspot.com/2009/03/failing-is-not-bad-thing.html

The Worst Feeling

Never forget those who matter to you, no matter where you are or what you are doing

Chang Your Habits

How many times do you go through the day doing routine things, things you don't need to think about or concentrate on, things that you do as a habit ? Have you ever wondered why we do them and what would happen if we changed those habits to something else, something more than we have at the present ?

People by their very nature are creatures of habits. We all have heard this and fundamentally know it to be true. However, have you ever really truly taken the time to ponder this idea. At its core, this idea states that all the success we want can be attained if we adopt the proper habits.

Is life really this simple? Could something as basic as habits create all the outcomes we desire? In a word, 'yes'. Anything you want to attain is a matter of only determining what habitual activities are necessary for its attainment. Once that is completed, repetition is added by doing the tasks over and over until it becomes a habit. This is the ultimate model for success.

I will use Ernest Hemingway as an example. Here was a man who is noted as one of the most successful writers in the 20th century. His works have been read by millions worldwide. He had a writing style that was unique which accounted for a large portion of his success. However, nothing would be achieved unless he sat down and wrote.


http://dennisharting.blogspot.com/2009/04/our-habits-determine-our-success.html

The Beauty Of A Woman

This is a wonderful phrase to learn, all women are beautiful, no matter what they look like

Possibility

Anything is possible

Motivations

Do you have certain things you do to prepare you for certain tasks ? Do you have certain music to listen to when you are unwinding, or maybe a ritual you do when you get up in the morning to get yourself ready for the day. And if you don't do those things or hear that music do you find that nothing flows freely ? These are your life motivaters

People often tell me they lack motivation to complete the tasks which need their attention. In a word, they lack motivation. This is something that is fairly common among those who struggle. They have desires, and perhaps even a plan, yet fail to have the motives to complete what they desire. Thus their dilemma.

I cannot thoroughly cover how unearthing the "why" behind a desire will provide most of the energy needed to complete a task in this post. However, I can offer some assistance which will help you to get motivated to complete what you need to. These tidbits can be put into place immediately if you are only willing to follow them.

Have you ever noticed that gyms have music playing while people work out? This is done in an effort to create a particular atmosphere. Now, let us take this one step further. What is the difference between the music played in a gym versus that in an elevator. Each location has music yet creates a different atmosphere. The gym has something that will create energy and pump a person up while the elevator seeks to soothe.

http://dennisharting.blogspot.com/2009/04/motivation-aids.html

Faith

Faith comes in many forms, always have faith that life will be as you wish it to be, no matter what problems it throughs at you

Say Yes To Life

How many times in a day do you say no ? How mant times doe you hear the word no ? How many times can you admit to saying no to yourself, be it over a purchase, a decision or even what you want to eat ? Think of that the next time you open your mouth to answer someone or think about something


I believe that "no" is one of the most commonly used words in the English language. From the time we are little, we hear this word millions of times. Some people estimate that a child will hear no over 87,000 times before the age of 4. No matter how valid this statistic, we all can agree that it is every parents favorite word.

Of course, children are wonderful absorbers of their environment. They take in all that is around them. Is it any surprise that children say "no" with tremendous regularity. In short order, this becomes their favorite word.

Sadly, as we pass through life, we begin to accept this as our default notion. We react negatively to all opportunities or requests. Carrying forward the mindset instilled in our youth, we turn down all that is offered us. We say no to life.

It is for this reason that many live in a state of desperate existence. They will tell you they want so much more yet they repeatedly live each day the same as before. Whenever something is presented, they return to their favorite saying, "no".

If you are interested in transforming your life, it is time to start saying "yes" to life. This means that you move your life from a state of existing to one where you are truly living. You start to accept some of the things that life has to offer. Over time, your circle of experiences will expand.

http://dennisharting.blogspot.com/2009/04/say-yes-to-life.html

Define Myself

How would you define yourself, which things would best describe you ?

Quality not Quantity

We all know the type of person, the one who has a million friends, who is always on the phone, bouncing from person to person, talking to everyone but listning to no one. Are you that type of person ? Do you know the likes and dislikes of your closest friends ?

http://dennisharting.blogspot.com/2009/04/quality-versus-quantity.html


I recently had an occasion to witness how someone seeks to develop her self through quantity rather than quality. Her esteem is such that she needs to surround herself with lots of people. This woman is always texting, calling, or instant messaging someone at all times throughout the day. I had the opportunity to see this first hand by going out to lunch with her. During the entire time we spent together, she never stopped interacting with others. This got my curiosity up to look a bit deeper into this.

A week later, I had the chance to meet her again. It was interesting how the low esteem is interwoven in all she does. To start, I will tell you this woman's life is chaos. She is always later no matter what. And, when I say late, it is not a few minutes. She showed up 45 minutes late to our get together. Normally, I would have left after about 15 minutes but I was interested in understanding this more. Again, when she got there, it was a similar thing. She was going a mile-a-minute the entire time. A relaxing meal was anything but that.

The Best Things In Life

Sometimes the best things in life cannot be touched but felt

Thoughts Have Power

what is the most distructive thing in the world ? What has the power to destroy more things than a bomb ? It is your mind, your thoughts, your fear of things in your mind that can make or break so many dreams and hopes. When you think, you project your fears or postive thoughts, they are the things that make or break dreams.

http://dennisharting.blogspot.com/2009/04/thoughts-have-power.html

Have you ever stopped to consider the power of the mind? If not, perhaps it is time that you really pondered how much force exists between your ears. Regardless of who you are, there is enough energy in your mind to create whatever you desire. People just like you developed the atomic bomb, build monasteries, erected skyscrapers, and tore down others. The mind is the most powerful computer in the world.

Sadly, this item is commonly used for destruction. Most of the energy which comes from it is negative. We allow the mind to control us through the use of fear. In turn, it creates a reality for us which is completely different then we desire. One day we wake up only to realize that our life "past us by".

Each thought you have has the power to either create or destroy. The results of your thinking is solely up to you. Mastering this force takes practice yet it is within reach. We learned to think negatively, thus we can reverse this practice. In the end, it will be what changes your life.

Life is Strange

Life is stranger than anything you can think of

Fear: The Unseen Enemy

What is the one thing, the one real emotion that can destroy your hopes and dreams, the one thing that when left builds and builds until you can almost taste it, smell it, the one thing that is responsible for you never having the courage to go after what you want ?

FEAR

Have you ever stopped to consider how much fear controls the average person's life? This is the single greatest obstacle to success that exists. There is nothing else on this planet that even comes close to destroying as many dreams as fear does. The mastering of this single emotion will set you on the path to instant success.

Fear is something that exists entirely in our head. Now, when I talk about fear, I am not referring to the fight or flight instinct that humans are born with. This sort of fear is a benefit when we find ourselves in a situation where physical danger is present. The fight or flight trigger has physical benefits to ensure our survival. It is not this which stops people's progress.

http://dennisharting.blogspot.com/2009/03/fear-unseen-enemy.html

Worrying

Worrying will not solve anything, especially as most of the things never happen

Get The Day Started Right

Every day we wake up with the promise to do more today, to achieve something that we want to get done, yet every day something happens that gets in the way of fulfilling that promise to ourselves, so maybe its time to learn to start the day right ?

Over the last few weeks, we discussed how action is the bridge from the invisible to the visible world. It is what takes an idea and makes it reality. Sadly, most fall short at this phase of their progress. Fear in the form of procrastination takes over resulting in self-sabotage. Moving ahead in an active manner is crucial to our success. I often mention having a list of things that you want to get done on a particular day. This helps to visually see all that you are trying to accomplish. Many suggest using this technique for personal success. However, I find that there is a thought that says start with the hardest activity first. Thus, if you complete the difficult tasks, your day will be complete even if all is not done.

http://dennisharting.blogspot.com/2009/03/get-day-started-right.html

Look Fear in the Face

Look fear in the face and never let it rule your life

Consistency = Trust

Do you think you are trust worthy ? Are you someone who can be relied on ? Can you be the person who others come to in times of troubles and stress ? Many of us think we are trustworthy because we don't steal and we don't lie, but what do other people think we are ?

Everyone wants to be trusted. It is something that many crave without even being aware of it. In fact, the majority of people believe they are trustworthy. And in some regards they are. However, there are many ways in which they are not.

It begins with how we view trust. In other words, what is our basic definition of trust. I would say that most look at it as being honest. They are trustworthy because they will not steal from you. I believe this makes them honest, not necessarily trustworthy. Nevertheless, for their definition, they are trustworthy.

http://dennisharting.blogspot.com/2009/03/consistency-trust.html

You are Unique

There will only ever be one of you, live life and leave your mark

Think, Act, Adjust

A lot is said about making a better life for yourself, following your hearts desire, making things happen in your life that you want to, but not much is said about how to achieve these things, how do we take a feeling, a thought, an idea and make it right for us ?

Here is a simple system for success in any area of life. Following these three steps will ensure you move forward in a consistent manner in the direction that you prefer. In the end, you will achieve what you desire in life.

Few people spend time thinking about what they truly want in life. Many are following the dreams that others set down for them. They made a decision to pursue a particular path at 17 or 18 and find themselves in the same profession decades later. Each day is justified by pointing to the fact that "I do alright at it". Never do they consider what truly inspires them.

http://dennisharting.blogspot.com/2009/03/think-act-adjust.html

Magic of Faith

There is a certain magic in having faith

Indecisiveness

Do you ever spend more time thinking about whether to do something than actually doing it ? Do you dither as to where to go and what to do ? Can you make a snap decision and know it is the right one, and if it isn't can you alter your course to make things work for you ? So many people spen their lives not knowing what to do, being indecisive, they can't make up their minds on most things



This is one of the states with is guaranteed to lead to failure. When people are indecisive, they fail to take action. It is impossible to be focused and bold when one is torn mentally. This is something that you will want to eliminate from your life.

It is impossible to make the correct decision in every situation. Part of the human experience is making mistakes. Yet, too many allow their fear of making the wrong decision hinder them from making one at all. There is a saying, "no decision is a decision". Being indecisive is a path that leads to failure.

http://dennisharting.blogspot.com/2009/03/indecisiveness.html

Life is a Ride

Life is a ride, live it well and enjoy the experiences

Teflon Insides

Are you the type of person who takes something said to heart or do you let it slide off you and carry on ? Do you let problems and worries control you or do you control them ? How tough are you really ?

John Gotti, the head of the Gambino crime family, was known as the Teflon Don because none of the first few indictments against him stuck. In other words, the charges of the prosecution bounced off him. This brings me to today's lesson. Do you have teflon insides or do you let things get to you? This is a very important question pertaining to emotional stability. Your answer shows how you are able to handle things.

http://dennisharting.blogspot.com/2009/02/teflon-insides.html

Take Notice

Take notice of the world, the magical moments can happen at any time

Take Charge Of Your Own Life

From the time we wake up till the time we go back to bed, most of us will at some time or another be told what to do, how to do it, when to do it, now I know if we are employed then those people in higher positions than us will have the 'right' as it was to dictate to us, but think about it........ how often do others tell you what to do ? How often do they dictate to you with regards to your life ? and you let them.....why ?

http://dennisharting.blogspot.com/2008/12/take-charge-of-your-own-life.html

This is the mindset that you need to acquire if you are going excel in these trying times. It is obvious that the world is in a turmoil like we never saw before. Economically, we might be confronted with the worst situation in the last 3 generations. There is little that is encouraging about what is coming down the road. The prevailing belief is that times will get worse before they get better.

That being said, I hope that most realize what the cost of depending upon someone else is. Everyday we are seeing lessons of people who put their trust in another only to be let down. Take all the people who worked in the financial sector. Hundreds of thousands of them lost their jobs because of the financial crisis. Even if they were superior employees, they are out looking for work. Another example is the automobile industry. People operated under the belief the union would take care of them. Sadly, if the companies go out of business, the employees are out of luck.

Courage

Courage, it is what is inside us all

Line In The Sand

How many times have you said you are fed up with something ? That enough is enough ? Yet still accepted what is done or said ? How far does someone/something have to go before you put your foot down and draw the line in the sand and say No More ?

http://dennisharting.blogspot.com/2009/03/line-in-sand.html

Is it time to draw the "line in the sand" with your life? We have spoke the last few days about beliefs and determining what is acceptable to us. Now it the time where we say "no more".

I was heard a gentleman share that to change we all need to get 100% of our own pain. He is an advocate that pain is the primary motivator in people's lives. I, too, found this to be true. People will do more to avoid pain then they will do for pleasure. It seems to be part of human nature.

Find Simplicity

What Is Most Important?

What is most important to you ? When faced with difficult decisions and events that may change your life then we finally realise what is important to us, and not always in a good way.

Life has a habit of throwing curve balls at us, but it is how we deal with these problems that make us the people we are, or the people we want to be

http://dennisharting.blogspot.com/2009/03/what-is-most-important.html


I heard of a situation that a friend of mine is confronted with. I will begin by saying that I do not have all the details since I heard this second handed but I feel the lesson is still the same. It really helps to put things in perspective.

Death is something that we are all confronted with. In the duration of our lives, we only are granted so much time on this planet. How we choose to utilize that time is a decision we are each allotted. Nevertheless, we only get one chance at this thing. In the end, we all pass away.

What is Freedom ?

What is Freedom ?

Life Is Simple

As a race we really tend to complicte things, projecting our thoughts into the future, trying to weigh up the pros ad cons of each choice we need to make, and for what ? What reason ? Only very rarely are those choices ones of life or death so why do we complicate things so much ?

We all complicate the hell out of life. When you think about it, life is rather simple. There are only a few basics that need remembering. After that, throw the rest away. Life is simple. You just make a series of choices and never look back. How profound. Did you ever consider how basic our existence really is? Yet, people foul this up by complicating the entire situation.

http://dennisharting.blogspot.com/2009/03/life-is-simple.html

I Feel Complete

For a few moment at the end of every day, I feel complete

Other Cultures

We live in a world that is full of amazing things, cultures and beliefs that are so different from ours, that does not make them right or wrong, just different. How often have you opened your mind to what is out there ? How often do you close your eyes and imagine what your life would be like in another place ?

I like to write about mindset on this blog. One of my favorite pastimes is to learn/study different cultures of the world. It is amazing how much you can learn from this practice.

There is a large world out there. Too often, we get so focused upon our own "little world" that we see in front of us. Realizing that there is so much more removes the mental limitation we often put upon ourselves.

http://dennisharting.blogspot.com/2009/03/other-cultures.html

Remember Who You REALLY Are

Never lose sight of who you really are

Be Bold

People always talk about making changes, taking a stand in the quest to achieve something that they wish in their lives, but a lot of the time it is just that, talk, well now is the time to be bold, take that step, make things happen and start to improve your life

http://dennisharting.blogspot.com/2009/03/be-bold.html

If you want something to focus upon in your daily life which will change your journey, it is boldness. People who are highly successful tend to do things in bold ways. This is one of the major things that separates them from others.

Have you ever seen a meek person? This is someone who appears to be afraid of his or her shadow. Every action that person takes is tentative. It is almost as if they are unsure of themselves.

Focus on the Inside

Focus on the inside and the outside will respond,

An Overriding Goal

Every one has a true desire, the one thing they want more than anything, the one thing that always seems to elude them, what is yours ?

http://dennisharting.blogspot.com/2009/03/overriding-goal.html

What is it you want more than anything else in the world? What is the "dream" that you carry with you on a daily basis? If an idea for your entire life is too much, what do you want to see happen in the next 6-12 months?

There is so much talk of goals that they can get diluted. The fact is that an overriding goal is what provides passion in our life. It is the basis of all obsession. People who feel that strongly about something will do whatever they can to make it come true. That is a person who cannot be stopped.

Today Is Special

Never wait for that special day, treat every day as if it is special because it is

Actions Not Words

How many times a day do you find yourself saying, " I will get to that later " and then finding later never comes ? Or saying you need to do such and such but never getting around to it ? All to often we can talk a good talk but fail to walk the walk as they say.

this article describes it better than I can

It is what you do, not what you say, that matters. Many can talk a good game. Few actually are able to do what they say. The percentage of the "doers" dwarfs the "talkers".

Action is the key to success. All the planning is wasted if not followed up by action. Those who are able to act tend to achieve their goals. Failure to act is what sabotages many from living their dream life.

I wrote a number of times how action is what takes something from the invisible world and makes it visible. An idea resides on the invisible plane. For us to enjoy success, this needs to transform itself in the material world. Action is the ingredient which makes that happen.

http://dennisharting.blogspot.com/2009/03/actions-not-words.html