Saturday, April 4, 2009

Define Myself


How would you define yourself, which things would best describe you ?

Friday, April 3, 2009

Quality not Quantity

We all know the type of person, the one who has a million friends, who is always on the phone, bouncing from person to person, talking to everyone but listning to no one. Are you that type of person ? Do you know the likes and dislikes of your closest friends ?

http://dennisharting.blogspot.com/2009/04/quality-versus-quantity.html



I recently had an occasion to witness how someone seeks to develop her self through quantity rather than quality. Her esteem is such that she needs to surround herself with lots of people. This woman is always texting, calling, or instant messaging someone at all times throughout the day. I had the opportunity to see this first hand by going out to lunch with her. During the entire time we spent together, she never stopped interacting with others. This got my curiosity up to look a bit deeper into this.

A week later, I had the chance to meet her again. It was interesting how the low esteem is interwoven in all she does. To start, I will tell you this woman's life is chaos. She is always later no matter what. And, when I say late, it is not a few minutes. She showed up 45 minutes late to our get together. Normally, I would have left after about 15 minutes but I was interested in understanding this more. Again, when she got there, it was a similar thing. She was going a mile-a-minute the entire time. A relaxing meal was anything but that.

The Best Things In Life


Sometimes the best things in life cannot be touched but felt

Thursday, April 2, 2009

Thoughts Have Power

what is the most distructive thing in the world ? What has the power to destroy more things than a bomb ? It is your mind, your thoughts, your fear of things in your mind that can make or break so many dreams and hopes. When you think, you project your fears or postive thoughts, they are the things that make or break dreams.

http://dennisharting.blogspot.com/2009/04/thoughts-have-power.html


Have you ever stopped to consider the power of the mind? If not, perhaps it is time that you really pondered how much force exists between your ears. Regardless of who you are, there is enough energy in your mind to create whatever you desire. People just like you developed the atomic bomb, build monasteries, erected skyscrapers, and tore down others. The mind is the most powerful computer in the world.

Sadly, this item is commonly used for destruction. Most of the energy which comes from it is negative. We allow the mind to control us through the use of fear. In turn, it creates a reality for us which is completely different then we desire. One day we wake up only to realize that our life "past us by".

Each thought you have has the power to either create or destroy. The results of your thinking is solely up to you. Mastering this force takes practice yet it is within reach. We learned to think negatively, thus we can reverse this practice. In the end, it will be what changes your life.

Life is Strange


Life is stranger than anything you can think of

Wednesday, April 1, 2009

Fear: The Unseen Enemy

What is the one thing, the one real emotion that can destroy your hopes and dreams, the one thing that when left builds and builds until you can almost taste it, smell it, the one thing that is responsible for you never having the courage to go after what you want ?

FEAR

Have you ever stopped to consider how much fear controls the average person's life? This is the single greatest obstacle to success that exists. There is nothing else on this planet that even comes close to destroying as many dreams as fear does. The mastering of this single emotion will set you on the path to instant success.

Fear is something that exists entirely in our head. Now, when I talk about fear, I am not referring to the fight or flight instinct that humans are born with. This sort of fear is a benefit when we find ourselves in a situation where physical danger is present. The fight or flight trigger has physical benefits to ensure our survival. It is not this which stops people's progress.

http://dennisharting.blogspot.com/2009/03/fear-unseen-enemy.html

Worrying


Worrying will not solve anything, especially as most of the things never happen