Victimization

There are times when life happens, when things beyond your control have an impact on your life and you have no control on the event ......... but you do have some control on the outcome.
How you deal with things, how you think and act can all have an impact on what happens next, your mindset is something you can control.


People love to play the victim. This absolves them of any personal responsibility. It also provides for an excuse as to why one did not succeed. After all, it was because of (fill in the blank).

Being a victim is a way to ensure you will never be successful. Always reaching for an alibi becomes a habit that will eventually stifle action. Take a look at the most successful people and tell me how many claim victimization. You will find this is not a common trait among this group of people.

http://dennisharting.blogspot.com/2009/01/victimization.html